Treat Each Child Accordingly

We have three kids and we expect three different attitudes from each one.  For we know for sure that God created each individual unique, no two different people are exactly alike, even twins! 

So, from our eldest, the middle child and the youngest, we treat them differently and accordingly.  Of course, I emphasize that the love we have for the three of them is the same.  But the treatment would be different at times.  As of this moment, we are still on the process of evaluating each of our child's characteristics, attitudes, interests, moods, skills, favorites and a lot more things to consider.

With this, we could really say we need a lot of patience and much, much lot of grace from the Lord. 

One of the important things to do that I've learned from one of my trusted mentors is that to bless each one of my kids especially when they are already asleep.  Bless them the way our forefathers of old bless their children.  We should really avoid using words that discourage or in a way "curse" our children.  We must remember the "power of words".  Because through this, I believed that it has a great impact on the way our kids will grow.   Besides, people (and even our children) really behave (and grow) the way you expect them to be.